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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 17:27

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

It seems that I am cursed with bad luck. How do I break such a curse?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

My friend asked my crush and he said my crush hates me but not in a rude way. What does that mean?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What's your favorite stupid joke?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How did you respond to, "Why do you love me"?

What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Will Colapinto replace Doohan as second driver at Alpine Team during the 2025 season or is just a rumour of Argentine press?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Is it true that most people in Québec are bilingual in French and English? If so, why do they often identify as monolingual?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What would happen if the US government told the British government in no uncertain terms all RAF bases with USAF personnel now must follow the Constitution and us law, and if the UK tried to defy this, the US military would directly attack the UK?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Can you share something that captivates you, whether it's an idea, a discovery, or an invention?

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why do many Hong Kong Chinese look different from the Han Chinese in mainland China?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What questions are asked in a JP Morgan Hirevue interview?

Procrastinates a lot.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Which album is your favorite that's now 50 years old (from 1975), and what's the best song on the album?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Have you ever had a weird experience immediately following the death of a loved one that made you think there is an afterlife and that the deceased person was communicating with you?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Since the Brits can't steer their oil tanker, what makes them think they can take on Russia?

Does not procrastinate.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

A handy charger for every Switch Joy-Con you own is just $20 - The Verge

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.